The Smart Parent's Holiday Survival Guide

Do not feel obliged to attend all events. Even if you have the time and energy, there is always the question of wrangling a babysitter who can be difficult at this time of year. Most moms agree that it is best to limit your answers with a handle if possible. "There are some parts, such as family reunions, we all Christmas Eve, I'm counting on anything ," said Alisa Fitzgerald , a mother of two children Boxford , Massachusetts. " Others take a back seat as I hate to admit it , but I have near RSVPing to the deadline , so I can to make an informed decision about the events that are most important decision-making tool - . Or those that we would just enjoy. "Do you have an exit strategy. " Setting expectations up front, like how long you want to stay at the party is a good thing ," says Ann Glackin , a mother of two from Clifton Park, New York. " My husband and I are trying to map things. If there is something like an office or a family event, which understands that we speak before departure. In this way , we are both on the same page and we end up not tired , bored or annoyed because the other is not ready to go. , and if we expect a quick visit , we can know the host. " We can not stay long but we do not want to miss your party ! say, on arrival, and then do not feel they do not be offended if we slip on . "Divide and conquer . "Often I'll go to a party and our children , and my husband at home or remain vice versa," says Bridget Pelosi , a mother of two children in Berkeley Heights , New Jersey. " The n is not ideal - but it works. "